thinking before i speak

17 May

I just wrote up an entire blog post and decided to stop myself before I published it. For if I published it now, it would be out of a heated moment and about a topic that really gets me going. So instead of ranting and raving like a crazy lunatic with no self control, I’m going to BREATHE. Then, I’m going to edit my blog post a little bit and post it here once I’m not so worked up.

But for now, I leave you with this. For THIS is what I’d REALLY like to say to a few peeps today. But would regret it if I said it any other way:

2 Responses to “thinking before i speak”

  1. Shari Lopatin June 13, 2012 at 3:09 pm #

    Ahhhh! I know EXACTLY what you’re saying! LOL! Sorry, just had to comment. Grrrr … I had a very similar moment about a week ago, myself. And I had to stop myself from writing some public stuff that I would have regretted later. Let’s just say this: I was basically told I was WRONG for not wanting kids right now, and how I should plan my (non-married) life around my non-existent children. Yea. I’d never felt so judged for being a non-married, non-mother woman in my life!

    • jesswilliams June 13, 2012 at 3:42 pm #

      Oh no! That’s terrible! I’m so sorry!! I’m constantly having to watch my mouth because I can definitely speak my mind too much before even thinking about it. And then I’m left with nothing but having hurt whoever I just unleashed my mouth on. Dumb. ha. So sorry you felt so judged friend! It’s totally ok to not want kids! It’s your life and you shouldn’t have them unless/until you are totally ready or willing to have them. You’re doing nothing wrong! šŸ˜‰ xoxo

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